Therapy for Women Who Want More Out of Life
More Passion. More Purpose. More Peace.
Without doing the whole clapping thing, I’ll quote the FRIENDS intro “So no one told you life was gonna be this way. Your job’s a joke, you’re broke, your love life’s DOA. It’s like you’re always stuck in 2nd gear….” Except in your case, you have a good job and feel financially secure. It’s just that other part. The love life. That’s where you really feel stuck.
You’ve always been high achieving and a go getter. You have worked hard and landed a great career. Your work is fulfilling and you are good at it. But you can’t help but wonder, is this it? You see all your friends and former classmates getting married and having babies. You still fall asleep to Netflix on the couch every night. You’re afraid you spent too much time putting together your perfect life that you forgot to make time to find a partner. This seems to be one thing that just does not come easily for you. You wonder if you are attracting these f*ck boys subconsciously or if that’s just all that’s left. You sometimes even feel silly to be so concerned with having a significant other when your life is otherwise pretty legit. You’re used to getting what you want when you put in the work. Want good grades? Study and go to class. Want a promotion? Stand out by taking initiative and being dependable. You’ve been using the formula hard work=results. It worked in school and now it’s working in your career. For some reason, in the area of dating, it seems more like hard work=heartbreak. The more you put yourself out there, the harder you fall. What gives?
You dread the holidays when you know Aunt Sally can’t wait to grill you about when you’re going to get married, settle down, and have babies. You are happy for your friends but weddings and baby showers are becoming increasingly difficult to get through. You really thought you would have a family by now and are worried that it is getting too late. You want to be with someone but don’t want to just settle. You feel guilty for wanting more when you have a really great life. You don’t want to be selfish by trying to have it all. But you can’t help but wonder if maybe you could.
I help smart, driven, and hardworking women create the life they want. Before coming to see me, they worry that the life they want just isn’t in the cards for them. They wonder if maybe they aren’t good enough. Or that they are the reason for their far-from-fairytale relationship history. I help to ease these fears and build confidence in going after the life they want. Going for what you want can be scary but you deserve to wake up each day living a life you love. Creating a fulfilling life, both personally and professionally, is not out of reach. You don’t have to feel stuck anymore. Call me today and let’s get started toward the life you’ve always wanted.